But it's not fear that is the problem. It's how you handle fear. It's how you handle losing.

但恐惧本身并不成其为问题，问题在于你如何处理恐惧心理，如何处理损失问题。

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"People have a variety of emotion," argues Harvard psychology professor Jerome Kagan. "Some people handle anger well but can't handle fear."

“人们的情感是多种多样的，”哈佛大学心理学教授杰罗姆•凯根说，“有些人能很好地处理愤怒，但却对付不了恐惧。”

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They can range from being compelled to wash the baby repeatedly in order to stave off germs and infection to refusing to handle the baby for fear of dropping her.

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