"You must not let it grieve you so much," said the little boy.

“你不能让这件事使你如此悲伤。”小男孩说。

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"Child, I must tell you something now which will grieve you as much as it grieves me," replied the doctor.

“孩子，我现在必须告诉你一件事，这件事会使你难过，也会使我难过。”医生回答说。

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Would it grieve you to leave it?

你舍得离开这儿吗？

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We pray that you'll find strength in knowing that our nation will always grieve with you.

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So I want you to know that whenever a young American soldier or marine, sailor or airman is killed in conflict anywhere in the world, we, the people of Britain, grieve with you know that your loss is our loss, your families' sorrow is our families' sorrow and your nation's determination is our nation's determination that they shall not have died in vain.

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You grieve and want to move forward in a way that memorializes them.

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