For starters, Sachs says, don't worry if the kids need some grace time to find jobs and homes of their own.
Sachs说,对于初学者而言,不要担心是否孩子们需要宽限期来找工作和他们自己的家。
Setting this kind of soft deadline will give you a crucial grace period to deal with unforeseen problems. You might even have time to recover from outright catastrophes.
设定这种“软期限”目的在于让自己能够拥有宝贵的时间来从容应对意外发生的问题,甚至从灭顶之灾中恢复过来。
Allow extra time for these glitches, and demonstrate grace under pressure.
给这些问题腾出些时间,压力下也要保持风度。
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