Depending on who the gossip is about, their boyfriend, husband, best friend or mother are most likely to be the initial recipients of the information.

女性最有可能首先将秘密告诉给男友、丈夫、最好的朋友或者母亲，而这通常取决于八卦的内容与谁有关。

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But what happens when the gossip is about you or your boyfriend or your kid?

CNN: Online campus gossips won't show their faces