父母若不具侵犯性,而且认识、尊重孩子个人的节奏和需要,并尊重孩子的空间,不常侵扰孩子“自我运作”(going-on-being)(温尼科特的说法),便可以帮助孩子在自我中悠然安住。
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当照顾者不必要的侵入干扰了自然的开展,于是婴儿无法保持一个连续的『持续存在状态』('going-on-being'),反而变得必须过度去反应,过分地机智(resourceful),于是警报响起,Winnicott所说的冲击效应(IMPINGEMENT)无可避免地导致精神...
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Going on Being 继续存在
Such a tremendous noise was going on in the banqueting-hall that there was little danger of their being overheard.
宴会厅里的喧闹声如此之大,他们不太可能被人听到。
Behaving badly or angrily, name calling and going on about things being "unfair" won't change the final result and will only make you look like a bad sport.
表现差、发脾气、谩骂以及抱怨“不公”不会改变最终结果,只会让你看起来像个糟糕的运动员。
"May you never forget this lesson, my son!" said Mr. Prentice, "You now get the secret of success. It lies in never stopping to think about a task being difficult or tiresome, but in going steadily on, with a fixed determination to succeed."
“愿你永远不会忘记这一课,我的儿子!”普伦蒂斯先生说,“你现在得到了成功的秘诀。它在于永远不要停下来去想一项任务多困难或令人厌倦,而是要稳步前进,以坚定的决心取得成功。”
This system has worked well for twenty years now but it is being superseded by another Basel Convention -Basel II -which has been going on for some years now.
至今这个体系已经良好运作了20年,但是它即将被另一个巴塞尔公约所取代,新巴塞尔协议,其实它已经实施了好几年
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