That's why the best way to get someone to do something is to plant the seed.

这就是为什么让某人做某事的最佳途径是“播种”。

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If you want to get someone to do something, ask them in their right ear, say scientists.

科学家说，如果你想要让某人做某事，在他们的右耳旁边要求他们。

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You do actually get something out of this... a great feeling that you've actually helped someone or contributed to their life in some meaningful way.

实际上，你确实可以从中获取些什么，比如说，你在帮助了他人或者给他们的生活增光添彩之后，你所感受到的美好。

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And by the same token, police officers can't - I don't believe should be so thin-skinned as to allow someone to get them to do something that they perhaps would not have done.

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Evidence that someone ought to do something pretty quickly in order to get the economy moving again?

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Successful entrepreneurs, like Tony Hsieh of Zappos and Casey Sheahan of Patagonia, have long since realized that influence is no longer something that you do to someone to get what you want, but requires listening and relationship building to do what they want, with a win-win outcome.

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