For instance, envy and deception have helped me to make useful changes in my life.

比如，嫉妒和欺骗帮我在生活中作出了有用的决定。

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Given the temptations waiting at maturity, self-deception is the 'seeming-easy' choice; or you can ask: "How do I regain responsibility for my self?"

假定人变成熟时会遭到种种诱惑，自我欺骗似乎就是一个很简单的选项，或者你会问，“我怎样才能重新承担起对自己的责任呢？”

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