Why it might not work: If you and your date can’t find much to talk about, and those painfully awkward silences are getting longer, there’s nothing to do but watch the barista wipe down the tables.
如果你跟你的约会对象没什么可聊，尴尬沉默的时间越来越长，你们只能看着咖啡馆的员工擦桌子，那么这里也许就不适合你们了。
Find the time to check out your surroundings, talk to neighbors, watch the sky, sit with a pet, water the garden by hand, or watch your kids play in the dirt by themselves.
去找个时间，检查一下周围的环境，和邻居聊聊天，看看天空，和自己的宠物坐上一小会儿，亲手浇浇花，或者，看看你的孩子是如何开心地在泥巴里打滚吧。
Keep your conversation unhurried and simple, and watch for nonverbal clues and body language to find the meaning underlying the words.
保持你的会话从容简单，并注意找出非语言线索和肢体语言，了解患者的话背后的含义。
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