When invited to a dinner party or wedding, we feel a strong compulsion to reciprocate, sometimes against our better judgement.

当被邀请参加一次晚宴或婚礼时，我们感觉到很大强迫去交换，有时不利于我们更好的判断。

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For me, having bridesmaids is an excuse to express how I feel about my friends, to get together and do stuff, and in a weird way, that's what wedding and marriage is about too.

对我，拥有伴娘是表达我对朋友的感觉的、聚在一起做一些事情的一个借口。 从一种怪异的角度来看，这也就是婚礼和婚姻。

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It seems like a lot of people want to feel like superheroes on their wedding day.

似乎有很多人想在结婚那一天体验当超级英雄的感觉啊。

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"These people were there for me for my wedding, and I would feel terrible saying no, because they were there for me, " Winfeld said.

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"When people get a little carried away, they forget how all their guests may feel, " says Ms. Post, referring to wedding registries that might include such things as farm animals, honey bees and even manure.

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The duchess said she spoke on the telephone with Prince Andrew and her daughters throughout the morning of the wedding - 29 April - and that they made her feel "very part of the day".

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