I do not recall that I felt any tenderness of conscience in reference to Mrs Joe, when the fear of being found out was lifted off me.

原来担心偷窃被发现的心态既已消除，我也不再去考虑良心上有什么对不起姐姐。 然而，我喜欢乔。

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It involves being sensitive, moment to moment, to the changing felt meanings which flow in this other person, to the fear or rage or tenderness or confusion or whatever, that he/she is experiencing.

这包括对于另一个人的内心中发生变化的感知意义（felt meaning）和这个人正在经历的感觉，无论是恐惧、愤怒、脆弱、困惑还是其他感觉，时刻保持敏感。

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