And you will vitiate the experiment if you make the slightest attempt to abort it into some fancy figure of your own: for example, your notion of a good man or a womanly woman.
你只要有哪怕一丁点儿企图把这个人变成你自身某一花哨的侧面，试验就会失败：例如你把自己对于好男人和淑女的观念强加于它。
It has a parallel here: what matters in combat is whether the man beside you can be trusted to do his job, not whether —in less fraught circumstances—he might fancy you.
位置是平等的：关键是在战斗中是否可以信任你身边的人f去做他的工作，而不是在轻松的情况下，他是否可能会看上你。
Men who aren't tall, dark and handsome can compensate by wearing high-status clothing (no woman, it is said, can resist a man in surgical scrubs) or driving a fancy car.
不够挺拔、不够黝黑英俊的男人可以穿彰显地位的服装(也就是说，没有女人能抵抗一个衣着光鲜的男人)或是驾驶一辆酷炫的车来弥补。
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