How does expecting people to act like we do relate to Bennett's article about sympathy and empathy?

看了贝内特写的同情与移情的文章，如何期待(思考)一些人会跟我们一样处世做事呢？

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We're not expecting your sympathy.

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We sometimes invite others to step into our business by disclosing too much information, or expecting too much sympathy or advice.

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