To counter denial, tell your child as often as necessary that yes, Grandpa is dead, and will not return, but those who love him will always remember him.

为了应对孩子否认事实的态度，你需要反复的跟他说：“是的，爷爷已经去世了，再也不会回来了，但我们会记住他的，所有爱他的人都会记住他。”

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He still remembers the expression of relief in the faces of parents when they heard "Your child is severely injured" because it meant that at least they weren't dead.

他还记得，当那些夫妇听到“您的孩子受了重伤”时，脸上流露出解脱的神情，这意味着孩子至少还活着。

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