If you are currently married but have cohabited with a lover other than your current spouse, you are slightly more than twice as likely to divorce than someone who has never cohabited.

如果你目前还维持婚姻但你和伴侣分居和情人同居，那你的离婚机率是从来没有和第三者同居过的人的两倍多一点。

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CURRENT HONESTY: Reveal information about the events of your day. Provide your spouse with a calendar of your activities, with special emphasis on those that may affect your spouse.

现在诚实：告知你每天的活动信息，给你的伴侣提供你活动日程安排表，在那些可能影响你伴侣的活动上做重点强调。

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What if you want to leave one IRA to charity and one to your kids or one to your kids from your first marriage and one to your current spouse?

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The way forward from U.S. News is to sort out your likely Social Security income, any pensions due to you or a spouse, then subtract that from your current cost of living.

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If your kids are grown, your spouse may have to beg them for help to maintain his or her current lifestyle.

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