Deciding you are gay often happens gradually, it may not be something you can initially put a name to, and it can feel very confusing.

它可能不是你一开始能给命个名就是的事。 而且，它会使你感到很迷惑。

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Today, I learned that if you're going to tell your mother you are gay, make sure she isn't holding a frying pan filled with hot grease.

今天，我又学到了一招。当你准备告诉你妈妈你是同志的时候，最好不要趁她手里面拿着滚着油的平底锅的时候说。

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Today, I learned that if you're going to tell your mother you are gay, make sure she isn't holding a frying pan filled with hot grease. FML.

今天，我又学到了一招。当你准备告诉你妈妈你是同志的时候，最好不要趁她手里面拿着滚着油的平底锅的时候说。FML。

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No matter where you work in my state you are eligible for contraceptives through your health care coverage, and if you are gay you can get married here.

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It's hard to say what it means to "not know" that you are gay until late in adulthood, said Gail Wyatt, sex therapist and professor at the University of California, Los Angeles.

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The kind of gay activists who think you can't be authentically gay unless you are permanently in opposition to the mainstream find the prospect of gay assimilation appalling.

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