In her piece, the thrice-divorced McMillan explains that women are single for one of six reasons: YouAre Angry, YouAre Shallow, YouAre Promiscuous, YouAreA Liar, YouAreSelfish or just plain YouAre Not Good Enough.
If you blow a scoring opportunity because you're selfish, you know the crowd are going to be baying for you, and you know who is going to be slammed in the paper the next day.