When you see a man shedding tears in sorrow for a child abroad or dead, or for loss of property, beware that you are not carried away by the impression that it is outward ills that make him miserable.

当你看见一人蹲在角落里悄悄为了自己远离或死去的孩子或者因为穷了抹眼泪的时候，记住你对这件事情的评价不应该是外部的伤痛使这个人难过。

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If you have a funeral to attend, you need to have Friday off and you are deemed to have a funeral when the dead person is a parent, a sibling, a child, a spouse or partner, an in-law, a grand-parent, a cousin, an aunt, an uncle, a friend, a classmate, a nephew, a niece, a boss, someone you go to church with, a workmate, a neighbour and of course, a president.

BBC: African viewpoint: A three-day week for Ghana?