Try this experiment — the next time you have a conversation with a good friend, do not use the words "I", "me" or "my".

可以试试这个实验：下次你和好朋友交谈的时候，不要使用“我”或者“我的”。

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In other words (using the specific example of a data binding API), don't assume that you want to use data binding every time your code works with XML.

换句话说(使用数据绑定api这个具体的例子)，不要假设您的代码每次处理XML都要使用数据绑定。

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Furthermore if this person USES some words or expressions that you 're not familiar with, you can use the context of the rest of the conversation to help you figure out what they mean.

另外，如果对方用了你不熟悉的单词和表达法，你可以借助其余对话的线索来理解它们的含义。

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Mr. BAILEY: It can be, and it's difficult with--you know, the use of some words that meant something 20 years ago may mean, you know, something totally different with the MTV generation.

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But sometimes the answers and the words we use to phrase them with are less than satisfactory and in many cases hurt your business more than you initially think they will.

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