We are busy wondering, what does my companion see or think of this, and what do I think of it? The original impact gets lost, or diffused.

后面这些都是解释前面那句。可以这么翻译“我们只会关心同伴的想法，而很少关心自己怎么想的，自己原本的认知就消失了，或者模糊了” 这里this=it，都指代某个事物 4、the original impact是不是说自己内心的看法？比如，一开始，自己内心会对一件事情有自己的看法。但是，听了很多人的不同看法之后，自己内心的看法渐渐消于无形了？

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We are busy wondering, what does my companion see or think of this, and what do I think of it?The original impact gets lost, or diffused.

我们在疑惑，我们的同伴如何看待或者思考这些事，而我又如何思考?原始的效果消失了，或者扩散了。

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More working people are busy with work and have no time to spend with their families and friends. Why does this happen? What are the effects on family life and society as a whole?

人们忙于工作，没有时间和家人和朋友分分享，原因和何在，对于家庭和社会的影响？

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