Don't show the opposition they hurt you!

别让对手看出他们伤着你了！

youdao

Those men took you away from me . . . and they hurt you.

那些人把你从我身边带走……他们把你伤害成这样。

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If they hurt you before, why let them keep doing it year after year in your mind?

如果他们曾经伤害你，为什么还年复一年地让他们在你的心灵中继续为害？

youdao

So you can only hurt the one you can love but the one who always loves you sometimes has trouble showing you that they love you.

所以你只会被所爱的人伤害,但是一直爱你的人,有时不善于表达他们对你的爱意。

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The person who every time they sees you hates you, says they hate you and accompanies it with an obscene gesture-- after a while this person can't hurt you. Right?

一见到你就讨厌的人，他们说讨厌你,边说边做着鄙夷的手势-,但这些人并不会伤害到你？

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And you know, there's a cliche about this - they can only hurt you, they can't really help you very much.

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Like I try to prepare myself because I - you know, when kids are really little and they fall down and they're not quite sure if they're hurt, so they look at you.

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Things like the affectionate touch to your face, the knowing smile when you do something nice for someone, the tear in their eye when you are sad or have been hurt by life, the smile when you are happy and they are sharing in it, the arms that hold you close daily.

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