I just feel like a normal girl, but other people, like Ian, have had that experience before, so they're like, 'Yeah, this is what happens; there's nothing you can do about it.'

我觉得我只是个普通女生，但是其他人，比如Ian之前就有过这种经验，他们的感觉就好像是，‘是啊，事情就是这样，你也没办法。’

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And that's killing me inside. I feel like a zombie because there's nothing that I can do to my people that's struggling."

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