To help children grow healthy and defeat-resistant, it would be best to let them fall in defeats and then pick themselves up again.

要让孩子健康地成长，勇于面对失败，最好让他自己跌倒，自己爬起来。

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Others get them done for special occasions and then let them grow out, returning (and paying full price) when they need a new set.

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