I kept waiting for someone to show me the secret handshake.

我一直在等待有人向我说明这个神秘符号。

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The SSL Client sends a message encrypted with the secret key, indicating that the Client part of the SSL handshake is complete.

SSL客户机发送一条用秘钥加密的消息，表示ssl握手中的客户机部分完成。

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The SSL Server responds with a message similarly encrypted with the secret key, indicating that the Server part of the handshake is complete.

SSL服务器用一条同样用秘钥加密的消息作出响应，表示握手中的服务器部分完成。

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It can be either a clever shorthand mutually understood by colleagues or, more cynically, a way to bamboozle outsiders, to make the simple seem more complex and mysterious the tongue-twisting equivalent of a secret handshake.

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You watch the guards giving their signs to each other, then you have to copy it in a funny and surreal secret-handshake dance-off.

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