I know, conspiracy to make you sad pain, your tortured, so that you can not say that out of pain, however, you believe that your pain at the same time, fans no less than your pain.

我知道，阴谋让您伤心痛苦、让您饱受折磨、让您有苦说不出，但是请您相信在您伤心痛苦的同时，歌迷们不会比您好过多少。

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Then you find that you're happy more often than you're sad, and with your confidence growing, you find it easier to make good decisions.

接着你发现你经常感到快乐比悲伤更多。随着你变得愈加自信，你会发现更易于做出好的决定。

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She recommends remembering the good times you had with a deceased loved one, rather than the ones that make you sad.

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