To stay in good spirits, do not overeat. To get along, do not speak harshly of others.

饮食八分饱，精神才会好；讲话留三分，日后好相见。

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"For me, it was wherever she is most comfortable," said a dad, who, concerned that he would have to speak harshly about a low moment, Shared the story requesting anonymity.

“对我来说，无论如何都要给她一个最舒服的环境，”一名父亲如是说。

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