She was effectively saying, 'I hope you're proud of yourself.' Jenny's been crying non-stop. She blames herself.

“她好像在说些什么，说希望自己是他们的骄傲什么的…”珍妮一直在哭个不停，她责备自己。

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Her third child was "born slow", she says. She blames herself and her drinking for the disabilities he will live with for the rest of his life.

她说，她的第三个孩子“天生迟钝”。她谴责自己酗酒导致这个孩子将终生与残疾相伴。

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Finally when she blames herself for all the things, she thinks it as a result of vanity, in fact, the first impression is unreliable, and bias is more terrible than ignorance.

后来她自我责备时，她所以会做出这种蠢事，完全是虚荣心作怪，事实证明：“初次印象”是不可靠的，而偏见又比无知更可怕。

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Though she presents her ideas as new, she thinks of herself as a feminist, and like all feminists, she blames "society" for sending "cultural messages" loaded with "gender stereotypes" that discourage women from becoming leaders in their fields.

WSJ: Do as I Do, Not as I Say