Surrender is hard work. In our case, it is intense warfare against our self-centered nature.

降服是一件艰巨的事，对我们来说，这是一场与我们的自我中心的剧烈争战。

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This occurs when we are part of a collectively competent group where there is complementary participation and a surrender of the self to the group.

这种现象发生在我们是一个全体有能力的小组的一分子的时候，在小组里人们优势互补并且完全服从于小组。

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Society changed me so much, I learned to be self-surrender.

社会改变了我好多，我学会了以自我表现为中心。

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Rather I suspect he found himself sliding insidiously down that very slippery slope we can all find ourselves on when we first decide to give in to the temptation to surrender self-respect for self-interest, albeit perhaps in more mundane ways, in our own lives.

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But I would not surrender to my former self.

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