It's not what you say, it's the way that you say it.

问题不在于你说什么，而在于你怎么说。

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For those of you who have never heard French before, when you hear somebody say, "Je ne sais pas," you could say, "Remarkable!"

对于你们那些从未听过法语的人来说，当你们听到有人说“Je ne sais pas”，你可能会说：“太神奇了！”

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For instance, suppose you say you would really love to have a cup of coffee right now, and I say "there's a shop around the corner".

例如，假设你说，你现在真的很想喝杯咖啡，而我说“拐角处就有家咖啡店”。

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"No," you say,"it just can't be true! Who told you?" Comes the answer, "I got it by the grapevine."

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Okay? So when you say that what you're doing is scientific in a context of this sort, you are making yourself vulnerable.

对吧？，所以在这种情况下你说自己所做的是科学的时,你就使自己站不住脚了。

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Let's say you have a teacher who gives you work that keeps you up till 5 in the morning sometimes.

假如你的老师，他布置的任务有时甚至能让你做到凌晨5点。

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So what you do is, you say, you move things along the best way you can.

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