When you're with your friend you don't think about what you should say next or what funny comment you could pull out of your sleeve.

当你和朋友在一起的时候，你不会去想接下来我应该说什么或者我应该提出什么有意思的话题。

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Thee next time you want to say something or do something, pause, take a deep breath and think about the consequences, will it make you feel better about yourself?

下次当你要说出什么或做什么事时，暂停，深呼吸，想一下后果，这会让你对自己感觉更好吗？

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It creates a sense of unpredictability, and we hate that because it makes us have to think about what you are going to do or say next, and we get uncomfortable.

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They did say that I would be able to go home on Friday, but now they think it might be next Tuesday or Wednesday, which is fine by me.

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