Remember or forget, or just a way of self-abuse.

记得也好，忘记也好，都只是自我虐待的方式。

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Maybe, everyone is lonely, no one will accompany you, do you remember or forget are not important, important is I have been to your world.

也许真的，人都是孤单的，没有谁会陪谁一辈子，你记得还是已经忘记都不再重要，重要的是我曾经来过你的世界。

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If you forget the plot of the movie or don't remember even seeing it, that's far more concerning, Daffner says.

戴夫纳说：“如果你忘记了电影的情节，或者甚至不记得看过这部电影，那才更令人担忧。”

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Now you can begin to see the kinds of errors that this method might produce because people forget, they can't remember exactly how much they ate of things, or they may not be willing to disclose everything they ate.

现在你就可以明白各种误差,是由人们的遗忘而产生的,他们无法准确记得吃了多少东西,他们不会透露所有自己吃的东西

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On another score, the Clintonistas can't decide whether they want us to remember the 1990s, or forget them.

CNN: Commentary: Clinton mixes messages on Obama

The trick is to persuade such cells to forget what they have become and remember what they (or, rather, their ancestors) once were in the embryo.

ECONOMIST: Human embryonic stem cells

My reasoning is that unless a company is afflicted by an ongoing crisis which is reported on almost daily in the print, broadcast and social media, most people in due time forget the occasional negative they read or hear and just remember seeing the company or product name in the media.

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