Next time, say: "I have a problem with..." Describe the bothersome behavior in a precise way, which allows you to get to the nuance of the fight, and settle it quickly.

再有这样的情况，你可以说：“我有个问题…”具体描述一下打扰你的这一行为，这会使你找到争论的细节并将其迅速地解决。

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So next time you say "I will call you" take a moment and ask yourself if you really mean it.

所以下一次当你承诺“我会给你打电话”时，想一想，并问问你自己是否是认真的。

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Next time, see what happens if you say, loud and firm, "Let's give someone else a chance to talk!" I'll try it if you will.

下一次，看到这种情况，假如你要说点什么，请大声而坚定地说：“请给其他人一个讲话的机会！”

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