When you're a therapist, she says, people come to you in anguish about a love affair that's gone sour, a marriage that's gone wrong.
如果你是个医生,她说,人们会痛苦不堪地来找你,因为他们的爱情变质了,婚姻出差错了。
That instinctive love had been thwarted, contained, suppressed, channeled into a child's assumption of responsibility for everything gone so terribly wrong.
那种出自本能的爱被挫败、遏制、压抑,最终导致孩子以为所有的错都是自己的责任。
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