You do not deserve to put yourself down, you are a wonderful person and it is important that you learn how to love and respect yourself.

让你自己失落并不值得，你是一个很棒的人，对你而言学会爱自己、尊重自己是多么重要的事情。

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And if you learn that person shares an interest with you, say, a love of a sports team or hobby, that's great knowledge you can use to start a conversation.

如果你得知那个人和你有某项相同的兴趣(比如说对某个体育队伍的热爱或共同的业馀爱好)，那你就可以好好利用这些来打开话题了。

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To love a person is to learn the song that is in their heart, and to sing it to them when they have forgotten.

爱一个人就是学会对方心中的那首歌，并在他遗忘的时候为他轻轻吟唱。

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If I'm a Rattler, I should learn to love my fellow Rattler and appreciate him as a fellow, as a person.

如果我是响尾蛇队，我就爱我的队友,尊重他这个队友，尊重他的为人。

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