In distancing yourself, you'll get a clearer perspective on their potential.

超脱你自己，你会更清晰地透视它们的可能性。

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Ultimately, your compassionate empathy in understanding their motivation and in distancing yourself and shoring up your own defenses is the best form of forgiveness possible.

归根结底，理解对方的意图，让自己远离，架起你自己的防御，上你的同情心最要的原谅形式。

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