Maybe you think all the negative-self talk is your way of being real with yourself. Little things like: I’ll never get it done, I don’t deserve that, why would they want to help me?

不只是外在的因素让我们自尊心不够或者觉得自己不好，也许你会觉得，这样自我否定的消极对话是你内心对自己的真正看法，那些都是生活中的琐事：我永远办不好这件事；我不值得；他们为什么想帮我？

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'I don't talk to you because you are never here!'

“我没有对你说是因为你从来不在这里！”我说。

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You'd never hesitate to say "I have a doctor's appointment," so don't be embarassed to say, "I can't talk to you now, I'm in the studio all morning.

毫无疑问，你会说：“我约了医生。”所以不要觉得尴尬地说:“我现在不能跟你说，我整天在工作室。”

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I'm going to talk about a particular line of monoline insurers that you may never have even heard of because they don't deal with the general public.

我想讲讲一类特殊的单线保险公司,你可能从来没有听过,因为他们从来不与公众打交道

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