What I ask others to do, I must first ask myself if I would be wiling to do.

我要求别人做的事，要先问自己愿不愿意做。

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What I ask others to do, I must first ask myself if I would be willing to do.

我要求别人做的事，要先问自己愿不愿意做。

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When I talk to business managers and others about the book, people ask about whether employees will goof off when you give them space to be creative.

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If I ask you to help me, you can refuse and I will find others who will help me.

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Do I ask for what I really want, or just for what I think others want to give me?

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