Better: give people clear instructions about how to handle things and when approval is authorized, and allow them to handle it.

比较好的情况是：给你的下属一个清晰的指导如何去处理事务，并且授权让他们自己去处理。

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Generally, "help" makes things worse, unless you're Mom and you know how to handle me.

通常来说会越帮越忙，除非你是我妈并且你知道如何控制我。

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Things have been kicked up a few notches, and some negotiators don't play fair.This book will tell you what's going on, and how to handle it.

事情改观了，有些谈判人员并不会公平就事论事，而本书将会为你解析情况，并给你一些应对的方法。

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Never underestimate the value of having a neutral person outside the family help you get a handle on how to work things out.

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The students are underprivileged minority women with whom she discusses such things as how to handle a big order and how to restructure as you grow.

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Bad timing, bad pick-up lines, a wrong glare, or in the right place at the wrong time not knowing how to handle it are just a few things I have seen that people do to mess up a good time.

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