But they don't understand that their help isn't always helpful; that sometimes what you want is simply to be heard and understood or given a vote of confidence that you can solve your own problems.

但是他们不明白他们的帮助未必有效；有时你所需要的仅仅是倾诉和理解以及一张信任票——相信你可以解决自己的问题。

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If we don't solve our own problems soon, we won't be ready.

如果我们不能解决好自己的问题，我们将无力面对这样的情况。

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Don't Feel Guilty for Problems that are not of your Own Making: Oneof the most difficult aspects of work is dealing with customercomplaints.

不要因为集体失误而产生负罪感：单位中最困难的工作之一应该是处理客户的投诉。

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Because most people infected with swine flu tend to recover on their own and don't suffer major problems afterwards, some people are tempted to dismiss the infection and think it's not serious.

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