When you are attracted to another, you can do two things to protect yourself if you understand that your perception is biased.

当你对某个人有好感时，如果你知道是自己存有偏见的话，那么就可以藉着做两件事情来保护你自己。

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When you tell yourself you lack self-discipline, it is easier to understand that you can do something about it.

当你告诉自己你缺乏自律，明白你可以改善这一点就变得更加容易。

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Before you can expect other people to understand you, ask yourself, how well do I understand them? Understanding is the first step to improving.

在你希望得到别人理解之前，你先问问你自己：你对别人的理解是不是很好呢？理解是提高的第一步。

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It does not take one to know one; to understand the truths about the French, you do not yourself need to be French.

这不需要同类互知,你不需要是法国人,才能了解法国人

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Because you won't want to do everything from scratch yourself, you want to be able to look at what is being created by somebody else and understand what is inside of there, whether it works correctly and how you can build on it This is one of the few places where plagiarism is an OK thing.

因为你们不会想无论做什么事情,都由你们自己亲自上阵，你们希望有能力读懂,别人创造的语言,并了解其中的内涵，运转的正确性和如何在其基础之上继续发展,这是为数不多的,合理的作弊行为之一。

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