We have a different language now, compared with the 1950s, but most of us would still rather avoid a confrontation and hide our pain, decide to forgive our husbands and then not need to talk about it.

与50年代相比，我们现在的语言也不同的。不过，我们大多数人仍然更倾向于避免对抗，隐藏自己的痛苦，决定原谅自己的丈夫，然后觉得没有必要去谈论这种事。

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I always use it if I decide NOT to bring him up and get her to talk about him favorably.

如果我不打算取代她的男友，我经常会用这种方法，并且可以让她透露出她男友的优点。

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Before the interview to which the applicant comes "talkers talk to their friends and decide what will and won't be told, the audience (applicant) decides what will and will not give offense."

在面试前，申请人来“夸夸其谈者向他们的朋友和决定什么将不会被告知，和观众(申请人)决定什么将会和不会冒犯。”

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