They are very savvy in understanding which medium is most appropriate for the message and for the recipient, whether it’s a dinner invitation or asking someone out on a date.

它们对于哪种媒介（从信息和接收者考虑）是最合适的，是晚餐邀请还是约会邀约，显得十分精明老练。

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For example, if you're afraid of asking someone out on a date, then number one on your list might be going out to a public place and smiling at someone you find attractive (very mild fear).

例如，若你害怕邀请某人外出约会，那么个人列表上的第一层恐惧可能就是去往公众场所，对某个你发现很有魅力的人士微笑(非常轻微的恐惧)。

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