So people ask how you decide when to use value types and when to use reference types.

所以人们会问，你如何决定什么时候使用值类型，什么时候使用引用类型。

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When attending networking events, ask others what they do and think about how you can help them.

当你参加网络会议，询问别人他们做些什么，想想自己能如何帮助他们。

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For example when I meet you I might ask: "How are you?" and you might reply "Fine" when actually you feel like crap.

比方说，当我遇到你时我会问：“你好吗？”

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But you can't yet be in it yet, because when people write to us and ask how they get in the book, we sent back a postcard saying: drop dead.

但我们还不能为现在的人撰写传记，有时人们会给我们写信,问怎么样才能纳入传记中，我们就寄回明信片，上面写着，活人无资格。

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When you vary time a little bit and ask, "How does R change?"

当你把时间改变一个微元,然后问,"位矢 R 会怎样变化"

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"Part of the training is learning how to politely shut people down and graciously move forward, but we also talk about how to handle subjects like discussions of suicide and self injury, and how to know when to ask for help, " says Teri Brister, a content and education director for NAMI who sets standards for the programs.

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Whatever you do, don't abuse your network or get lazy about how and when you ask for help.

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