Ultimately, your compassionate empathy in understanding their motivation and in distancing yourself and shoring up your own defenses is the best form of forgiveness possible.

归根结底，理解对方的意图，让自己远离，架起你自己的防御，上你的同情心最要的原谅形式。

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Choice can also foster selfishness and a lack of empathy because it can focus people on their own preferences and on themselves at the expense of what is good for society as a whole.

选择也能助长人的自私，并缺乏同情心，因为它逼迫人们专注于自身的喜好和对社会整体利益的代价。

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They lack the capacity for empathy, and relentlessly act in their own interest while discounting any other people or points of view.

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And he sought to express empathy with his questioners as they described their own financial struggles.

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We should have empathy for these workers and understand that their lives are much more difficult than our own.

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