每个人都知道这个道理，并且这也是阻碍很多人追求他们爱好的原因；他们不希望发现没有人关注他们的努力，没有人想购买他们的产品。

Everyone knows this and it’s the reason so many people put off following their passion; they don’t want to find out that no one cares, and no one wants to buy what they have to offer.

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这一看法有一定道理，真正富有魅力并可以追求的男士数量有限。

And there's some truth to this. The number of truly desirable and available men is limited.

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要学会这一道理并不容易，尤其是在我们意气风发，自信的以为我们就是这个世界的主宰，只要我们对所追求的东西全力以赴我们就会获得的时候，要领会这一点就更难难了。

This is not an easy lesson to learn, especially when we are young and think that the world is ours to command, that whatever we desire with the full force of our passionate being can nay will be ours.

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