你可以从他们与她谈话的方式中就可以看出来。

You can tell by the way they talk with her.

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我不喜欢你对我谈话的方式。

I don't like the way (that) you speak to me.

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她谈话的方式缓慢而审慎。

She has a slow, deliberate way of talking.

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And the "Have you" pattern is probably the easiest way to find out anything about anyone you speak with.

Have you”句型可能是一种最简单地了解你谈话对象任何一件事的方式。

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