怀特医生的建议是：找到一个有经验的医生（由美国整形外科局认证的），要求看看“之前”和“之后”的照片，并和以前的患者谈论结果。

Dr. White's advice: Find an experienced doctor certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery, ask to see before-and-after photos and talk to former patients about their results.

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结果是你会重复这些你希望人们忘记的观点——但是，人们当然无法忘记，因为你一直在谈论它们。

You end up repeating the ideas you're hoping people will forget—but, of course, people can't forget them because you keep talking about them.

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当然如果你在检测前已经沟通了这件事情，那么谈论检测结果也会相对容易一些。

Of course, if you discussed the issue before you were tested, talking through the result might be easier.

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It turns out-- I was talking about what happened in L.A.

结果显示,我一直都在谈论在洛杉矶发生了什么

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I have to try to understand what you're saying and I have to refer it to what I want to say, and the circuit of communication between us has to stay open as a result of this mutual and developing understanding of what we're talking about.

我需要试着了解你正在说什么,并且与我想说的话进行联系，我们之间的交流要进行下去,这是我们对于谈论内容的相互发展着的,了解的结果。

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