简而言之，他们逐渐认为让家庭和睦的最好方法是各自照顾好自己，而不是为了别人而限制自己。

They are coming to believe, in short, that the best approach for family happiness is for you to take care of you and me of me, rather than everyone contorting themselves for everyone else.

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你不去寻找聚光灯，更愿意让事实说话。你不认为自己很特别，别人会认识和评价你的谦逊。

You do not seek the spotlight, preferring to let your accomplishments speak for themselves. You do not regard yourself as special, and others recognize and value your modesty.

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真正的快乐是来自内心的，不是别人带给的。不要错误地认为等待一个人或一件事的出现会让自己快乐。

True happiness comes from within, not from someone else Don't make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.

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