我想要懂你，我想要让你明白我得到了想要的，而你够了吗？

I want to know you, I want to show you I got the stuff now, Didn't you get enough?

youdao

关键要点是要让你明白，在完成了一件事后，这项任务并没有你想象中的那样艰巨，难道不是吗？

The point of this is for you to realise, AFTER it's been done, that the task wasn't as huge as you IMAGINED it. Huh?

youdao

他明白了，要让别人想得到某件东西，你只需要让他难以得到这件东西。

He had learned that to make someone want something, you only have to make it difficult to get.

youdao

To capture what's excruciatingly undesirable about the two, you need to think about the two in combination.

要弄明白什么是关于这两者让人难以接受，你需要考虑这两者的组合。

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