有时融洽的交谈会自然而然地发生，但如果你没有那么好运的话，你需要亲自去营造出这样的氛围。
Sometimes rapport just happens all by itself, as if by chance; sometimes you have to give it a hand.
如果你在交谈的第一句话中打断别人进行评判，你可能会立即失去建立融洽关系的能力。
If you interrupt the person in the first sentence of the a conversation to pass judgment you have immediately lost the ability to establish a rapport.
许多心理学家甚至建议：在交谈中时相互握着对方的手，这样在交谈遇到问题的时候，两人可以保持一种融洽的关系。
Many psychologists even suggest holding hands as you talk-to keep a warm connection ongoing through all the bumps in the conversation.
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