我也曾无数次的历经过这种情况，本打算给某人（我丈夫或一个同事）我认为有帮助的建议，结果却只带来了不经心的冒犯。

And I have found myself in plenty of situations where I’ve wanted to give someone (my husband, a colleague) what I thought was helpful advice only to inadvertently offend him or her.

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某物如一建议或产品，或某人，如一候选人或一个作者被展现给公众的方式。

The manner in which something, such as a proposal or product, or someone, such as a candidate or an author, is presented to the public.

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